Q: Is there a perfect way?
A: It is up to you.
Q: What does that mean?
When Jesus was explaining the Parable of the Sower (Mt 13), he said, “…he that receives seed into the good ground is he that hears the word, and understands it; which also bears fruit, and brings forth, some a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty.”
Notice the determining factor of the outcome of ‘the sowing’ isn’t dependent upon the sower or the seed, but upon the ground (wayside, stony, thorny, or good).
Matthew 19 begins with some Pharisees tempting Jesus with a question regarding divorce. Jesus asks them if they have read what was written, ending with, “Wherefore they (husband and wife) are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder.” The Pharisees respond with Why did Moses say different?, to which Jesus answers, “Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.”
So, is there a perfect way?
…dig in to the Word, and read it for yourself.